Here
we provide a checklist of questions you may refer to when it's time
to talk with your doctor or nurse.
Of course, you need not ask all
these questions at one time - and, yes, we think it's good practice
to be respectful of
your doctor's time. That said, be aware that your doctor cannot
meet your medical needs if you don't honestly describe how you are
feeling and communicate your treatment goals and concerns.
A good doctor-patient relationship requires honesty on your part, and
diplomacy.
Diplomacy:
"Is this a good time to ask questions, doctor?"
But
whatever the answer, find a way to ASK YOUR QUESTIONS.
Prepare and provide the questions in
writing so your doctor can answer when time allows.
Honesty:
Let your doctor decide if a symptom or change is important or not -
communicate honestly with your doctor, the nursing staff, your loved ones, or
your support friends.
How to communicate?
There is no one correct way to
communicate. If you are uncomfortable speaking, bring someone along
who is not. Write your questions down, or have someone do this for
you ... or print out the list that follows and underline what you
want to ask.
The goal:
Shared decision making. Understanding your options and agreeing on a
plan.
Also see Preparing
for Doctor Visits - A Checklist

Brochures and forms you can print